Below is a list that outlines some of the blog posts that have been at the center of, or in addition to the malestrom.
(ganked from Gender Goggles)
The Feministing/Feministe Boycott
 Men in Women’s Bathrooms: Is Your State Next?: the Focus on the Family transphobia post with errant comment thread on Feministing*
 By Any Other Name: transmisogyny post with errant comment thread at Feministe
 Bathroom panic, it’s totally feminist: Queen Emily’s response to errant comments on Feministing.
 Very Necessary: Voz Latina’s call for a boycott of Feministe/Feministing.
 It’s Always About The Cis Women: Lucy’s post about both Feministing and Feministe.
 On Cis Supremacy, Feminism and Feministe: Cara’s response to all of this on Feministe.
I just read the Bitch, Ph.D posts, and that was essentially the shit cherry that topped off the vomit sundae. Its what made me realize that I couldn't keep avoiding this.
Big note to anyone who wants to be considered "progressive" and "feminist":
I DON'T GIVE A FLYING RATS PATOOTIE WHAT YOUR RATIONALIZATION FOR IT IS. TRANSPHOBIA, TRANSMISOGYNY, AND THE ERASURE OF TRANSPEOPLE IS NOT PROGRESSIVE NOR FEMINIST.
Also, fucking up and showing your ass as a privileged person is going to happen. When it does, the proper response on being called on it is SINCERE APOLOGY AND MAKING SURE IT DOESN'T HAPPEN AGAIN.
Now I know what its like to teach five-year olds. Christ.
Anyway, I have removed both Feministing and Bitch Ph.D from my blogroll. I'm keeping Feministe for the moment as they are the only ones that have taken this criticism in and tried to improve. As of now, I don't know if Feministing has responded at all, and frnakly, Bitch Ph.D's non-apology ("well I'm sorry that you're offended" etc) just pissed me off more, so I don't think I can, in good conscience, go back there.